Monday, September 21, 2009

婚姻伦理

刚从 GUA MUSANG 回来。参加表侄女的婚宴。回程大塞车。回味道道客家菜。好棒!

华人传统婚姻伦理的内涵与观念是必须尊从,尊重。伦理学也称为道德哲学或道德学。

婚姻道德观念发生了错位时真的会引起家庭大乱。我想,男女性解放与之有重要的联系吧!

以下是一则抄自e mail,一语道出了婚姻伦理观的冲突所带出来的问题。

Two men, one American and an Indian were sitting in a bar drinking shot
after shot.

The Indian man said to the American, "You know my parents are forcing me
to get married to this so called homely girl from a village whom I
haven't even met once." We call this arranged marriage. I don't want to
marry a woman whom I don't love... I told them that openly and now have
a hell lot of family problems."

The American said, "Talking about love marriages... I'll tell you my
story. I married a widow whom I deeply loved and dated for 3 years.
After a couple of years, my father fell in love with my step-daughter
and so my father became my son-in-law and I became my father's
father-in-law.

Legally now my daughter is my mother and my wife my grandmother. More
problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my father's brother and so
he is my uncle. Situations turned worse when my father had a son. Now my
father's son I.e. my brother is my grandson. Ultimately, I have become
my own grand father and I am my own grandson..

And you say you have family problems.... Gimme a break !!



5 comments:

tionia said...

it is a very complicated relationship.不伦不类的关系,很复杂。婚姻伦理很重要。

elize said...

tionia:会有感悟是因为最近认识了一个友族家庭,当他向我介绍他的家庭成员时,有点类似这则故事的关系,搞到我一头雾水。

验光师 said...

有无搞错????

Kg Folk said...

Hi Elize,

MCA cannot be commented?

昨夜, 我等赞扬两位前马华領袖的英文文稿放在我的部落还不到十分钟, 就有人向我等呛声。这代表了什么? 我等认为有必要公开讨论,以惯策尊敬的首相所要求的透明方式作业。

我等见识浅薄之人、深感疑惑, 觉得有些不对之处。
1. 是不是有人二十四小时在互联网络关注有关马华的评论?
2. 为什么我等赞扬现領袖可以, 赞扬前領袖即刻引起呛声?
3. 为什么某些马华領袖不能有海纳百川的胸襟?

因而, 我等认为马华不是某些領袖的私人产业。由独立前到现在, 有谁胆敢否定马华跟国家政治及经济的关系? 又有谁胆敢切断马华跟马来西亚各民族的联系?
由此可见, 马华如果有做错, 马来西亚各民族都可给予谴责 ; 马华如果做对, 各民族都会不吝给予赞扬!!!

poll4malaysia said...

马华党争越来越白热化。尘封好久的光碟,竟然又再“重出江湖”?这是因为特大日期越来近的原故吧。问题是,这些重新出现的光碟到底是翁派的人所派放,准备置政敌于死地?或是蔡派的人“故布疑阵”,嫁祸对方?或者又或者是党外竟然也有人插手准备混水摸鱼,让两派人马再起争端,风云再起,以便坐收渔人之利?

问题是:你的看法或直觉是什么?

没有任何政治背景的部落格投票平台
单单纯纯地让网民投一张票
清清楚楚地显示最新的民意
坦坦荡荡地使议题透明化
也:真真实实地朝向“一人一票”方向走去。
你喜欢也好、你不喜欢也好。你可看看网上的民意,仔细咀嚼内中的涵意。
滋味可能很甜,也可能五味参杂。

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