婚姻伦理

刚从 GUA MUSANG 回来。参加表侄女的婚宴。回程大塞车。回味道道客家菜。好棒！

华人传统婚姻伦理的内涵与观念是必须尊从，尊重。伦理学也称为道德哲学或道德学。

婚姻道德观念发生了错位时真的会引起家庭大乱。我想，男女性解放与之有重要的联系吧！

以下是一则抄自e mail,一语道出了婚姻伦理观的冲突所带出来的问题。

Two men, one American and an Indian were sitting in a bar drinking shot
after shot.

The Indian man said to the American, "You know my parents are forcing me
to get married to this so called homely girl from a village whom I
haven't even met once." We call this arranged marriage. I don't want to
marry a woman whom I don't love... I told them that openly and now have
a hell lot of family problems."

The American said, "Talking about love marriages... I'll tell you my
story. I married a widow whom I deeply loved and dated for 3 years.
After a couple of years, my father fell in love with my step-daughter
and so my father became my son-in-law and I became my father's
father-in-law.

Legally now my daughter is my mother and my wife my grandmother. More
problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my father's brother and so
he is my uncle. Situations turned worse when my father had a son. Now my
father's son I.e. my brother is my grandson. Ultimately, I have become
my own grand father and I am my own grandson..

And you say you have family problems.... Gimme a break !!